Books:
Attached:The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find-And Keep-Love (Levine & Heller)
Buddha’s Brain (Hanson, Rick)
The Ethical Slut (Easton, Dossie)
Full Catastrophe Living: Using the Wisdom of Your Body and Mind to Face Stress, Pain, and Illness (Kabat-Zin, Jon)
A General Theory of Love (Lewis, Amini, Lannon)
The Gifts of Imperfection (and anything by Brene Brown, really)
Healing from Trauma (Cori, Jasmin Lee)
Hold Me Tight (Johnson, Sue)
Integral Psychology (Wilbur, Ken)
The Mindful Path to Self Compassion (Germer, Christopher)
More Than Two (Rickert, Eve, & Veaux, Franklin)
Natural Capitalism: Creating the Next Industrial Revolution
(Lovins, Hawkins & Lovins)
Waking the Tiger: Healing Trauma (Levine, Peter)
The Web of Life: A New Scientific Understanding of Living Systems
(Capra, Frijof)
Links:
General
Hakomi Institute of California
New Perspectives Center for Counseling
Queer Life Space
Alternative Sexualities / Relationships
Bay Area Open Minds
Poly-Friendly Professionals
More Than Two
National Coalition for Sexual Freedom
Trans & Non-binary
TG Chrysalis
WPATH
San Francisco Bay Area:
Dimensions Clinic
Gender Spectrum
Kaiser’s Gender Pathways Clinic
Lyon Martin Health Services
Tom Waddell Clinic
Trans:Thrive
For BDSM / Kink:
Click on the following link for a very good article about choosing a kink-positive therapist which was written not too long ago by two colleagues of mine, Keely Kolmes, Psy.D. and Geri Weitzman, Ph.D.